04-24-2009, 10:43 AM
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Republic (in the Ozarks), MO
| | Re: I'm the one living with MINL: I'm not sure why I'm geting married
I would postpone the wedding.
When you postpone it, tell him why. Tell him you're not getting what you want. And consider, too, that after marriage, he will likely revert to his "old" ways since he won't have to keep trying any more.
If you're not getting what you want now, why would you think that marriage would make it happen?
I would love to have a woman that I could touch, hold hands with, enjoy life with. Someone that would be my partner. A woman I could talk to, listen to, make love to, send her flowers once in a while.
I guess that if you're getting married, you must love him. Is your love strong enough for both of you? It shouldn't be, it should be from each of you. Do you want to spend the rest of your life like this? Only you can decide that.
It ain't illegal until you're caught!