bkaydezz

Its probably ahead of itself now.

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Hopefull363

So a 31 year old cop took advantage of an 18 year old girl. Yes the 18 year old has a small amount of culpability in this but he has the most. He was supposed to be the mature one in this situation. Your friend needs to run for the hills and take him for everything she can. He's just disgusting.

the guy

If you really give a damb about this friend then do your own ivestigation, plant the VAR's and hidden cams and go all James Bond, then take the evidence and give it to her.

Just be warned, they always kill the messenger.

I suggest you you take what you have learned here and offer any support your friend asks for. You have been here long enough to know deniel is powerful and its just a matter of time before your friend takes you up on your offer.

Be patient it hard to think about the unthinkable! Just be there when she is ready.

Again if your daring enough set it up and plant the deed so it looks like you had nothing to do with it.

EleGirl

All this while his wife and children were in the house

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bkaydezz

We havent spent anytime out of work together.
i dont know where she lives or what she drives.
I also dont own a var.

She is private with her life and doesnt talk about her business to just anyone.

I will suggest to her about the var though and see if she is up to it.
As far as i know the cousin hasnt see him sense all this happened.
but who knows right?

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bkaydezz

yes:/

i was so upset when she told me that.
what a way to leave a rotten stinch in the home.

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EleGirl

Your friend has to talk to her cousin.

Her husband might have confessed to her so quickly to make sure his wife got his spin of the story and to tell her to not talk to her cousin.

The cousin's story might be very different. She needs to talk to her cousin and ask the cousin what happened.

She needs to do this without warning her husband that this is what she plans to do.

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kindi

Any 18 year old chicks out there reading this thread who might be into a late night game of Twister?

I'm asking for a friend

bkaydezz

i have questioned that myself!!!!!
her story may be very different.
or somewhat anyways.

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tjohnson

It is likely you will never know what actually happened. Regardless enough for you friend to see that this guy is a dog.

Agree with others. Don't be the detective. If you uncover the truth you could be shunned for that as other said the messenger usually gets shot.

Good luck!

srtjm

No they were checking for ticks. But even in the song it was implied that it was just a precurser for what followed.

Hopefull363

Haha, the first time my husband and I heard that song we were laughing hysterically.

Goldmember357

perhaps

Lenny

Wow, how bizarre, I dont think its too much of a stretch of the imagination to say yes they were acting in an extremely inappropriate manner, sex does not necessarily equal penetration.

ladybird

I would have your friend call her cousin and tell her, her husband told her everything and wants to hear it from her side.

Yeah they had sex.