Re: I feel suffocated by my husband.
I think i'm the odd one out here lol
I was married to a man who never spent any time with me.It was like living alone but married.
I'm VERY independent,have my own hobbies,have my own interests and so forth. However,my SO wants to do everything with me and I love that about him.
It isn't always a confidence or self esteem issue.I simply love spending as much time with him as possible.He embraced my hobbies and interests,I embraced his and now we do them together.
For the situation of OP though I think I'd get annoyed not about the fact that he wants to be around her but by the fact that it seems it isn't about her,it's about his boredom.
oh and the nap thing for the other poster,i think it's wrong to guilt another person into spending time w/you.It's rude and immature,it sucks your wife manipulates you like that.