07-28-2012, 02:16 PM
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Southeast of Disorder
| | Re: Wife Gone Wild
As I have said many times before, you too will need to reach into your wife's purse, remove your testicles and reattach. When you do that you need to do the following.
1. Sit your wife down and tell her that these "outings" are unacceptable. Either you will be attending with her or she won't be going. If she shows resistance, you ask her to pack her stuff and leave immediately. She won't leave?, then you implement the 180, cut off all her money, access to cars, etc.
2. You take her phone from her. First you ask for it and if she says no and won't give it to you, you wait for her to put it down, go to bed, etc. Then you go through it and find evidence of the affair. Also, key logger on the computer and VAR on your person at all times to protect against false domestic violence charges. If her phone is locked you have your answer right there, then.
3. You tell your wife that the affair ends now or you will be filing for divorce. You let her know that you WILL gather evidence of her A and use it as leverage in court to get the house and primary custody of children. This may not happen in real life but the threat of it is usually enough to snap a WS back to somewhat reality.
4. If no evidence of an A is found, go back to step 1.
Expect a harsh reaction to your demands when you make them but if you don't, she will continue to lose respect for you and one day she will meet an OM and you will be history. Oh yeah, and,
DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES MOVE OUT OF YOUR HOUSE!
I can't stress this enough. Remember the following saying:
YOU MOVE, YOU LOSE! You lose the house, you lose custody, you lose your money. Best of luck.