07-30-2012, 12:36 PM
Join Date: Jul 2012
| | living with my father-in-law and about to go insane!!!
i dont know if anyone has any advive or anything that can help me out but i feel like im going crazy! me and my husband have only been married for a little over a year and are living with his dad. i wouldnt have a problem with that if the man wasnt a 54 year old lonely, creepy, sexist drunk. he is totally obnoxious, rude and disrespectful but expects everyone to kiss his butt and show him respect when he obviously dont deserve it. believe me, i could go on all day with things that he does, has done and ect. I feel like my marriage is falling apart because my husband is caught in the middle. but he even tells me its not because of me, its his dad. when im not around he cries and goes off to my husband about how im not being nice to him or how im not talking to him and my husband is on the verge of a stress induced heart attack because of this. it got so bad one day he broke down into tears and told me maybe its best if we seperate for a little while unless i can somehow get along with his dad.its like im being forced to just because he will throw a little 5 year old temper tantrum and say hes going to move out (we are stuck in a 14 month lease and absolutly cannot pay the rent by ourselves) yes, there is an end in sight but, i really dont know how much more i can handle. everytime the guy opens his mouth to talk i want to hit him. before he moved in with us he still lived with his mother and father (hes 54 and the're 84. he just moved in with us 8 months ago) "mommy" cooked for him, cleaned his messes, bought all the food, did his laundry and practically wiped his butt for him! im at the point where my hair is literally falling out in gobs and im starting to get acne all over my face but still the worst thing being is its ruining my marriage