08-06-2012, 08:20 AM
Join Date: Jul 2012
| | Re: The Confrontation
Wow, OK yeah that would be a horrific thing to experience
you can't go back in time at this point and leave. I'm sure the shock of it was partially what kept you there, waiting for someone to 'fix' the situation and make her leave. When this really comes full circle for you, you are more than likely going to be enraged beyond belief.
It sounds like they got to know her while you and hubby were split up. Hubby needs to tell the family that the two of you are working on your marriage and ex girlfriends aren't allowed. Why this wasn't done is beyond me, unless she has been getting encouragement from family members who prefer her to stick around. Ugly. That would be my take on it.
I'm sorry you went through that
you need some boundaries stat. Make it known to him in no uncertain terms that it was hurtful, disrespectful and demeaning to you. Don't blame mom for this, unless she personally invited the chick, she may have been as surprised as you and didn't know what to do.