My daughter is 33 and a only child. I will say I was young when I had her so I can honestly say I didnt do alot of the things I should have done as a Mother.
I and my husband left her with his Mother while we moved to get our lives in order.
We separated she was with me then him finally with me. I was in a abusive relationship which took more of my engergy trying to save myself than paying attention to her, which was wrong.
She started shop lifting at 16. since she has 4 different felonies, her son has been with us since birth.
He has been in the house with him, but living life a free single person. Basically me and my husband rasises him.
I have become very bitter toward's her, she can't get a job to support her and her son, so she still lives with me and my husband. Did i mention she pays no bills, she gets food stamps.
She is disrespectful to me and my husband, never speaks, ask are we ok, do we need anything, can I help do something.
If I ask her anything it ends up being a fight, so I say as little as possible.
My husband has a 18 yr old son whom we've only seen 3 times in 13 yrs. he wont call nor does he care about him.
Ive been on meds and seeing a Therapist for 10 yrs to help me deal with my daughter, husband and grandson.
For my health and in order to keep my sanity while i raise her son, I have put her out, I gave in and let her back in.
we are moving in a coulple of weeks. I REFUSE to let her move with me. My husband her step father thinks I'm wrong, however I did wait until 2 wks out to tell her I could live with her any longer.
She and my grandson are spoiled and full of ENTITLEMENT.
My husband is mad she is mad and DISPECTFUL. Im tired and just dont want to raise her and her son any longer, I just want it to be me and my husband. we have never lived alone without her or her son for 13 yrs. Im tired.
I would appreciate all the help I can get.
Thanks for reading