Re: Get pregnant to "TRAP" a man?!
I don't know if she got preg to trap him, as he is no innocent victim in this. He was dating and sleeping with a lazy immature girl, why would anyone expect her to be anything other than she is?
Your brother should be more careful who he dates and sleeps with. after all he is 10 years older and should have enough sense to understand how babies are made.
I think he's going to be stuck with this girl for some time... if not living with her or married to her, in paying child support.
This was his choice to date someone with her traits.... so maybe they are not as offensive to him as they are you.
Could be that the 30 year old women in his age group do not appeal to him due to his immaturity, thus why he feels safe and good with the 19 year old.
Just try to get along with her when your in the same room with her, your attempting to control her will just backfuire, she is what she is and its not you who has been sleeping with her or has to live with her or will end up paying child support to her.
It helps get things into focus when you look at it from both sides. He was someone dating and sleeping with a woman 10 years younger, who is immature and lazy, so why should he not be held accountable for his actions and any consequences of that choice he made?
He is experiencing a result of his actions.
With me, I've been thinking this morning before coming online how many of my lifes problems are no things I make a choice on, things that people bring to me, things I have no control over... and
I am learning not to take sides before knowing the whole picture.
Last edited by preso; 05-09-2009 at 11:46 AM.