Re: No Sexual Kisses
Yes, I quit kissing as the first step toward ending our marriage. Did not realize that at the time, but looking back, I know that was when it started.
It could be something simple, like Mavash says. Or it could be something really big. Read up on the "Walk Away Wife" and see if you have treated your wife like that, ignoring what was important to her, etc. If it rings true, then you know what you are dealing with. If not, then keep pushing her to tell you.
You could stop initiating sex and see if she notices or cares. That might be an answer in and of itself.
Oh, and my situation had nothing to do with menopause. It had to do with all the resentment toward my (now ex) husband.