I am in my late 20s and have recently experienced with being hit on by a woman in her 40s, married with children hitting onto me. I know her whole family as there are some social acitivities which brings us together.
Apparently, she has had an eye on me for a while and I was deliberately excusing myself away from her but recently, she seems to be more assertive into trying to make an effort to being in the same space with me, trying to probe my daily schedules etc.
It scares me not because of her advances but because of her intentions towards me - I suspect that it is some kind of emotional void that she is trying to fill in her marriage which I really dont want to be involved in. I know that she is perhaps seeking some kind of emotional solace from me and I sympathise her with that but at the same time I dont want to have an affair with her even if it is just emotional because it just gets complicated once a person is attached to another.
I feel frustrated because I ask myself why me? Why cant she find someone else, a male preferably?
If push comes to shove, I want to be direct with her and tell her to stop in a nice way, just wanted to see if this is a good step to take?
Apparently, she has had an eye on me for a while and I was deliberately excusing myself away from her but recently, she seems to be more assertive into trying to make an effort to being in the same space with me, trying to probe my daily schedules etc.
It scares me not because of her advances but because of her intentions towards me - I suspect that it is some kind of emotional void that she is trying to fill in her marriage which I really dont want to be involved in. I know that she is perhaps seeking some kind of emotional solace from me and I sympathise her with that but at the same time I dont want to have an affair with her even if it is just emotional because it just gets complicated once a person is attached to another.
I feel frustrated because I ask myself why me? Why cant she find someone else, a male preferably?
If push comes to shove, I want to be direct with her and tell her to stop in a nice way, just wanted to see if this is a good step to take?