I met a new lady, maybe it is some cycle I'm on, but she's involved, how is it that ladies want to go out with you and say they have a great time and yet extend the stiff arm with the "I'm seeing someone once in a while".
I wanna laugh, but I take it strait in the kisser. Her body language was all to herself, first clue right, she never touched me except for the initial hug, she tells me how interesting I am and how fun I am to be with and on and on and she sends me an email today telling me what a great time she had and to have a great week.
She wants to have a talk, well I'm gonna say, "if you have a chance at love you should take it, forget me, I'm just new to the neighbourhood, trying to make friends"
Only thing is she's HOT, really HOT, I'm mean bang'n HOT, really. We did exercise outdoors in a park and she wore the tiniest little pair of shorts and running top. Yes, bang'n HOT.
I should probably forget her, I think I'm going to just be ok being friends if we are even friends.
Hey, there is always her friends right, smok'in hot girls have smok'in hot friends right?
don't give up on her just yet-----be cool. see what happens.
and the smokin' hot friends are a great plan B.
remember....smoking hot is great....but an average looking lady might end up being your real princess.
Funny thing about time, it passes just like the seasons, I've met a rather pretty hot nurse to take care of me but then on the other hand I've also met a really young Phd student @30 years of age to also take care of me. I feel like that bee, pollinating far off plants. Yes, I do feel rather young, or these ladies make me feel young. Of course, I feel like a dog because I know them and they don't know each other. I have to get it while the gett'in is good, just like a feast or famine.
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I’m wondering about your "healing" if you feel it has to feast or famine. Why can’t it be moderation? Why can’t it be monogamy? I’m still going through the divorce process and honestly can’t see myself with anyone if not ever again then at least for a very long time, but I would think true healing would be acceptance of being alone or waiting for that person that you can be willing to open yourself up for again. I tell those that want to set me up, I wouldn’t want to date me right now, and until I know that I’m complete in myself and ok being independent or alone I don’t want a relationship. Does that make sense? Do both women know your dating someone else? Hopefully you’re not causing hurt.
doureallycare2, did you read my whole thread from when I first started this journey?
doureallycare2, being right in the middle of a divorce, nobody is in their right mind, especially if one is the leav-ee instead of the leav-er.
doureallycare2, I hear your words, talk to me again or read my thread again when your divorce is over a year behind you.
It was more than 3 1/2 years the X left me. For some reason, un-explained but right around the 2 year mark a male person needs companionship as explained to me by a dear friend who went thru my situation, although he was married for much longer. A male person has needs, companionship, friendship, sex, love, talking, lots and lots of intimate talking.
I'm just dating, I'll never, never, never, ever get married again. I have my children and my freedom plus I want all of my stuff and cash to go to my children. Get married, Haaaaaaa!!, it has happened to to many people I know, new step-parent gets it all and the children are left with nothing.
Remember some famous person said,"somebody is happy in a divorce"
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