So Last year before we were married we both had bacholer and bacholerette parties the only thing is i was 5 months pregnant so going to the movies is not what i call a party... anyways my husband went out with some of his buddies i told him i didnt want him going to a strip club in my opion that is not how you celebrate getting married he promised me he wouldnt.... got home that night super drunk i asked him if he had gone he said no just went to the bar thats it.... I had no reason to doubt him he has always been honest with me and had made it clear in the beginning of our relationship that all he asked for was honesty.... Well guess what nine months later I find out he sure went to that stripclub..... Iam very hurt by this its not even the fact that he went yes it upsets me but what hurts the most is how he lied to me for so long and i never would of found out if his brother wouldnt of slipped up one night when we were drinking.... After constantly looking at me and saying i would never lie to you blah blah blah! He says he was sorry that he made a mistake and it will never happen again... but i dont know anymore it still bothers me and i found out two months ago now its everything i dont trust him i worry if he is cheating on me or lieing about something else.... how do i moive on from this? how do I trust him again?