A few questions to ask the ladies...

sisters359 · 06-07-2009, 01:25 PM

I would not cheat b/c it's wrong. I realized it was going to become more and more challenging NOT to, so I decided to end my marriage. Our sexual relationship was never great and then got awful over time.

snix11 · 06-07-2009, 03:09 PM

So lack of good sex was the main reason for the divorce? I wonder how many others are this honest.

sisters359 · 06-11-2009, 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by snix11

So lack of good sex was the main reason for the divorce? I wonder how many others are this honest.

Had the sex been good, I might have stayed. Not sure--the problem was, he wouldn't try to please me, wouldn't listen to what I said I liked, etc. As I wrote elsewhere, numerous years of orchestrating my own pleasure each and every time, really totally sucked.

BUT, the truth is, he was/is like this in all ways. Very passive-aggressive. Any suggestion or request was/is criticism to be resisted. Now that I've seen the connection, I wonder why I stayed this long. We do have 3 amazing kids, however, so those years were pretty amazing in that way.