06-11-2009, 06:43 PM
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: SE Wisconsin
| | Re: A few questions to ask the ladies...
Originally Posted by snix11
So lack of good sex was the main reason for the divorce? I wonder how many others are this honest.
Had the sex been good, I might have stayed. Not sure--the problem was, he wouldn't try to please me, wouldn't listen to what I said I liked, etc. As I wrote elsewhere, numerous years of orchestrating my own pleasure each and every time, really totally sucked.
BUT, the truth is, he was/is like this in all ways. Very passive-aggressive. Any suggestion or request was/is criticism to be resisted. Now that I've seen the connection, I wonder why I stayed this long. We do have 3 amazing kids, however, so those years were pretty amazing in that way.