Re: Dreaming about another Man, Literally...
So on Friday night he wanted to smoke, mind you, he smoked on Wed. and Thurs. So anyways I said NO YOU ARE NOT SMOKING!! He said but I only took a couple of hits, I said I don't care, you still smoked!
We were heading over to his parents house (he was going to smoke there) and I said why don't we grab a six pack and we'll drink some beers with them... He said no, I want to smoke. So, instead of going to his parents house we just went home.
Let me tell you about his parents... They used to smoke back in the days when they were in their 20's. His dad hasn't smoked since and his mom will take a couple of hits. But they BOTH know that I will leave my husband if he doesn't quit. Yet they continue to allow him to smoke when he goes to there house!
So anyways, he was sooo pissed that I would not let him smoke. He said, sometimes I wish I was single so I could do what I want, when I want without being controlled by you! Then he said maybe I need a girl who doesn't care what I DO! I said, so go find yourself someone who doesn't care about you, who doesn't care where your life goes, who doesn't care that you smoke and drive... If that's what you want!
We drove in silence for the next 10 min. I popped in a movie that we rented and watched it together... No talking...
After the movie he said sometimes I wonder if we should be looking for a house/condo? Because I don't think this relationship is going to work out.
All this because I wouldn't let him smoke. Makes me wonder. I think if I made him choose between ME or the POT - He would definitely choose the POT.