07-20-2009, 09:16 AM
Join Date: Jul 2009
| | Re: hubby gone off sex
Some people don't like oral sex. Some people don't like giving it even though they like receiving it. My husband doesn't like giving, so he does not receive. That is the deal. Yes, it puts a damper on our sex life. They don't know what they're missing. We have to find other ways to make sex pleasurable.
Anyway, your situation sounds serious.
If he refuses to participate in any kind of foreplay, then you probably feel violated, almost as if he is raping you. He needs to be faced with a choice: Either go to a sex counselor or lose your wife. You need to get away from him if he cannot get help because his actions are hurtful to you. However, you are letting him do this to you because you are staying there.
I hope you find the strength to get help for yourself and make the right choices. Many churches are available to help you.