07-12-2009, 11:04 AM
Join Date: Jul 2009
| | Re: trying to be strong..
Okay, I have recomposed myself. I would tell you that you should seek support from a counselor, minister, local support group something.
You are at a very emotional time in your life anyway, what with a newborn, sleepless nights, hormones all out of wack. Even with the best support at home, women struggle through this time.
You sound like a very strong person, which is great, but don't take the world on your shoulders. Get help, if not for yourself for your daughter. It sounds like you still love your husband and if love can be saved it should.... but BOTH parties must participate.
So, first get some type of counseling for yourself, then second you will both need to get counseling and if he refuses, then he has most likely given you your answer.
My prayers will be with you and your daughter.