Re: Need Help from Wives!
I am glad that you left him, too. It's nice that you think well of him, but he does not think well of you. You are a decent person and he is not. Decent husbands do not go on craigslist looking for sex in any form whether he actually hooks up with these people or not. If my husband did that, I would go ape sh*t, ballistic, and nuts. I would know that my marriage is in trouble and that he was a sleazeball for at least emotionally cheating on me. And you were still having sex with him so many days a week? The fact that you lasted so long with him doing this just shows that he de-sensitized you and had you wondering if it was even wrong in the first place.
You did the only thing you could do. Thank goodness you had the balls to leave. You didn't agree to that kind of a marriage. Do what you can now to be independent, get support $ from him, and move on. There are much better people out there who will love and cherish you and not use you as sloppy seconds or thirds.