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Old 03-08-2013, 12:00 PM   #421 (permalink)
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Sure, I agree with that article....men should make sure they are on top of their game. So should women. That article has nothing to do with the topic I have been discussing, however. Not saying you shouldn't post it - - just saying I am confused by your posting it as it has nothing to do with this subject so it was not being debated at this time.
The article is all about men addressing physical attributes in order to become more attractive, an area you have argued that AK underestimates.
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Old 03-08-2013, 12:01 PM   #422 (permalink)
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I have no idea what you mean, Dawn. Are you saying that there are younger hotter women who would want to just have sex with older men, without a relationship? Please tell me if you personally know that this is occuring with young women you know. IOW, no one can seem to show that this actually happens "in the wild". Young hot women do NOT just screw older, less hot men. Do they?
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"The article is all about men addressing physical attributes in order to become more attractive..."

My problem with his theory is that he says that a woman's SR always goes down with age where a man's can go up. Which is NOT addressed in this article, but is in many other things he writes.

Look - if you guys want to go on believing that as you age you will get hotter and young babes throwing themselves at you, great! Have fun with that. Reality is going to set you straight.

Again, once in awhile it happens that a younger woman or younger man is into the older woman or man. This is NOT a common occurance and no one has shown that it is - neither by just straight up sexual attraction NOR by mating choices.
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Sure, I agree with that article....men should make sure they are on top of their game. So should women. That article has nothing to do with the topic I have been discussing, however. Not saying you shouldn't post it - - just saying I am confused by your posting it as it has nothing to do with this subject so it was not being debated at this time.
I'm sorry the article was about a man's sex rank. I meant to post on that thread.

I get that you feel you can post a thread and control the flow of the thread. LOL.

If one can up their sex rank over time, we can then say that that person can get older and up their sex rank. I have know many people who tens years down the road look way better than they did when they were younger. Also for many they have improved their social status and maybe even are a better person for living life.

I do agree that in recent years we have seen the whole Cougar and MILF thing happening. Women who start to go to the GYM. Maybe start using that education they had. Often it is coupled with dressing more provocatively and being more sexual. So yeah a woman's sex rank can go up. Some rely on plastic surgery.
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No Entropy, I invite all posts. I just didn't know why you felt that article was a response to my post before it. And so far, still no one can say that they know young women in real life who are "into" older men, whether for sex or for relationships. It just doesn't happen other than the one-off situation. Yet AK would have you guys believing that at age 40, YOU can up your SR to a 9 - 10. But a woman cannot do this. And he wants you to believe that YOU can get a wife who is age 25 and SR9 - 10, when you are 40. BWAH HAHAHA HAHA HAHA HAAHAAA HAHA!!!!! And the men actually believe this???

Seriously.
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I have no idea what you mean, Dawn. Are you saying that there are younger hotter women who would want to just have sex with older men, without a relationship? Please tell me if you personally know that this is occuring with young women you know. IOW, no one can seem to show that this actually happens "in the wild". Young hot women do NOT just screw older, less hot men. Do they?
Yes a relationship is established before sex in most cases. I should have been consistent and said "couples," because that's what I was referring to. Which leads me to the following.

It's called sex RANK. There's multiple SR 8s of many ages out there for young women. There's a lot of factors for her to consider. But once that choice is made, it's not like she had a 2nd choice, 3rd choice, etc. Older men could definitely fall into any of these choices for a young, attractive woman.

You're solely looking at the actual choice a person makes in a partner, but completely ignoring the other choices in partners they could have considered (i.e. opportunity cost).
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"The article is all about men addressing physical attributes in order to become more attractive..."

My problem with his theory is that he says that a woman's SR always goes down with age where a man's can go up. Which is NOT addressed in this article, but is in many other things he writes.

Look - if you guys want to go on believing that as you age you will get hotter and young babes throwing themselves at you, great! Have fun with that. Reality is going to set you straight.

Again, once in awhile it happens that a younger woman or younger man is into the older woman or man. This is NOT a common occurance and no one has shown that it is - neither by just straight up sexual attraction NOR by mating choices.
I think there are all sorts of reasons an older woman would take on a young lover. This is not a new thing at all.
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"Older men could definitely fall into any of these choices for a young, attractive woman."

And where do you see the evidence of this?

What real life examples do you see?
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Look - if you guys want to go on believing that as you age you have greater potential than women to increase sex rank and have any babes of a similar or lower sex rank throwing themselves at you, great! Have fun with that.
Fixed that strawman for you.
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Sure, Dawn, you fixed it - - to the same one sided belief it was before. That somehow, biological rules are one thing for men and another thing for women....and yet STILL no one can show that this actually happens in the wild.
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No Entropy, I invite all posts. I just didn't know why you felt that article was a response to my post before it. And so far, still no one can say that they know young women in real life who are "into" older men, whether for sex or for relationships. It just doesn't happen other than the one-off situation. Yet AK would have you guys believing that at age 40, YOU can up your SR to a 9 - 10. But a woman cannot do this. And he wants you to believe that YOU can get a wife who is age 25 and SR9 - 10, when you are 40. BWAH HAHAHA HAHA HAHA HAAHAAA HAHA!!!!! And the men actually believe this???

Seriously.
I think an 80 year old guy has an even better chance at landing such a wife.

I guess the reason it does not jump out at me is because it is something that has nothing to do with me. I doubt I would want to marry a 25 year old 9 / 10. A trophy wife? If I were 40 and found myself single I probably would want to have sex with them. Maybe. But when I was 40 I looked maybe 30 so yeah I could have played with the mid to late 20s crowd. But looks aside my status would have helped me out.

I also could care less about a 40 year old woman bedding a 25 year old guy. Not exactly an accomplishment.

The thing is a woman's SR does not need to go up per se. She can have all sorts of sex if she chose to.
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Some folks take things a tad too seriously .........
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And where do you see the evidence of this?

What real life examples do you see?
Gee, any older, higher status male. I'm sure you've heard the tropes, "sugar daddy" "trading in for a newer model", etc. Do I really need to dig up some real examples?

It's irrelevant because it's still consistent with the theory. All couples tend to be similar in sex rank. Age can play into one's SR, but can be overcompensated by other factors.
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That's your rebuttal? Instead of just supplying the proof from your own life experience I had asked for?
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"Do I really need to dig up some real examples?"

Yes, because that is my point. It doesn't happen in real life in enough numbers to actually show itself as TRUE.
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