07-26-2009, 02:14 PM
Join Date: Aug 2008
| | Confused.... need advice
Okay here is my story last year around May my husband started acting weird. He went to vegas with a partner of his and when he came back things were different. It turns out the partner had a girlfriend who had a roommate named karla. So once he met here he took three trips to vegas in 2 months. We have been married 8 years at that time. I called him in on it he denied everything, I know just like a man, well that got me thinking he was cheating on me. So I dealt with it till february of this year, I met someone on line and we started seeing each other, my husband didn't care. I did it to see if he would get jealous and he didn't. So I continued doing my thing on the side thinking that was what he was doing. But it turns out I was wrong he never cheated until, this weekend.
He served me divorce papers on July 4th so I know he wants out, but he is still sleeping with me. I have gotten into a very serious relaitonship since June 18th, because his anger issue is just so bad I can't take it. So here we are now, been served divorce papers, he just spent the weekend with his girl Karla and I am just heart broken. Its like I want him back does that make sense. I am so confused on what to do, need someones advice besides my friends. Its like the minute he told me he was with her my heart broke. I am dealing with so much right now too, my mom died on July 10th, which was also my daughter's 16th birthday, so life is really sucky for me right now. I feel bad getting in another relationship still having feelings for my husband. does any of this make sense to anyone. He is going to be home soon from his weekend with her and I don't know what to say or how to act. jUst very confused.