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Old 07-28-2009, 10:38 PM   #16 (permalink)
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dcrim: Amber has principles and a brain. Neither equal "uptight".
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Old 07-28-2009, 10:48 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Ok ladies..

would you let your husband post erotic pictures you on a website, if it did not show your face and people could comment on them?

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hell no, what the hell for? some ugly pervs to enjoy?
ewwww. thats just nasty to even think about.

I guess some people would do ANYTHING for attention.
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Old 07-28-2009, 11:02 PM   #18 (permalink)
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with Preso.

Not everyone needs stroking from the public.

Why does someone need to have someone hold up "points" signs and get votes on the hotness of your wife/self? Or is this just a public way to get your rocks off KNOWING someone is seeing your spouse naked?

Stupid and rather sick if you ask me...and since you did....
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Old 07-28-2009, 11:04 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Dcrim !!! chill dude!! have a beer!!

Preso 99.99% won't have to worry about pics of their mom when running for president. LOL!
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Old 07-28-2009, 11:07 PM   #20 (permalink)
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dcrim: I have no idea what you are talking about.... I have no idea what you are talking about, regarding your daughter. I am glad you talk to your daughter regularily....that is nice, good for you and her, truly. She "agreeded" to what? You took what pix? Why are you so ANGRY? Because people have principles and a brain?

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Old 07-28-2009, 11:08 PM   #21 (permalink)
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"Stupid" suggests possible negative consequences, these days, nude pics of a woman on the internet are pretty common i'd have to say.

"Sick" nothing sick about it in my opinion, we aren't talking about schizophrenia here people....some men and women are turned on that they might be the masturbation choice for Bob the tobacca' chewin' truck driver from Alabama. So be it it's their choice.
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Old 07-28-2009, 11:11 PM   #22 (permalink)
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I was using the example of President as a primary reason. There are thousands of things that could happen where such photos would come up and RUIN many things.

Even if one is OPEN to doing such stunts for what is said as "fun", the WORLD is certainly not as liberal minded as some people would like to think. That is SIMPLY life, a fact of life.

One will run into people who have different points of view, who take exception to such photos. The world is not all one way, right or wrongly so, it is just that one must take care.

Evil exists. People will use anything to pull the crab back into the basket with others like them. You do know the principle of "the crabs in the basket"? It is TRUE. Have lived nearly 54 years and I see it ALL the time!
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Old 07-28-2009, 11:14 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Sandy,

Thanks for all the information, I had no idea that the world can be an evil place!!! and people have different views too!!! and they ain't always liberal either!! I don't know what i'm going to do with all of this new information but thank you none the less!
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Old 07-29-2009, 08:04 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Martino, that is why Adam lost American Idol, people "FEARED" he was gay,, so the "christians" rallied to vote for the other guy, becuase he was morally right.

Sometimes I feel we are slipping back to medieval times where we destroyed countless information because people were afraid of something different and new.

Or the salem Witch trials, accuse accuse and fear what they can not understand.


Anyway to the ladies that voiced their displeasure with my post. That is fine I understand, it is not for you, I expect it is not for 90% of the women out there, which is perfectly fine.

It doesn't effect you or your life, but you should learn to respect other people's lives and how they wish to live, instead of casting stones.

Sorry this evolved to a P match, I don't mind the "not for me" but please don't put my wife down bedcause she found it aurousing and a sexual turn on for her, she is comfortable in her own skin, sorry that you are not.
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Old 07-29-2009, 08:15 AM   #25 (permalink)
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GAsoccerman you have a fantastic realtionship with your wife thats all that matters im glad she enjoys you posting her pics it shows shes happy with her body and your relationship ... Good for you and way to go !!
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Old 07-29-2009, 09:14 AM   #26 (permalink)
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I maybe "up tight" but atleast i respect myself... and posting pictures of your daughter?? WHAT KINDA FATHER ARE YOU??? thats wrong, i would be pissed if my dad done that to me. and then ask if ppl wanna seen them...you need serious help.

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Old 07-29-2009, 09:16 AM   #27 (permalink)
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Is nothing sacred?

I think posting naked photos of oneself or one's spouse is stupid, senseless, and ignorant.

You never know where you will be tomorrow and what you must explain.

You never know where your children will be tomorrow and what you must explain.

Not everyone uses photos for the reason you post them, and they can and will be used against you, by some idiot, some day in the future.

Big, stupid mistake if you ask me.

couldnt have said it better myself.
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Old 07-29-2009, 09:41 AM   #28 (permalink)
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Sorry, but HOW DARE you guys say that his wife has no respect for herself...thats not your call.
I would also like to add, since I WAS one of the ones saying that I would not be opposed to my husband doing the exact same thing IF all identifying attributes were blacked out....not ONLY do I have principles, but I ALSO have a brain! Hmmm....i'm not uptight though, so I don't really feel the need to slam those who don't agree with what *I* find acceptable, because I am pretty secure within myself, my realtionship AND my personal boundaries. I guess if I wasn't maybe I would be on the other side of the fence, but since I am, you guys can think what you want, just tone down the personal attacks....
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Old 07-29-2009, 09:55 AM   #29 (permalink)
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Isn't that why the world is great? We all have differing opinions and have a forum to share them without being unkind to one another. Oh wait...

To each his or her own, seriously everyone...the only thing that really was creepy in this thread was DCRIMs post, I'm a little freaked out by that...

If you or your spouse likes to pose, even if in an anon format, then more power to them. It doesn't mean diddly about respect for themselves or others, it's what they like to do. If you don't go for that, that's fine too...but far be it for any of us to judge anyone else. We all have our own things that we have done, that we like to do and that we are thinking about doing that others might not like or understand.

That all being said, GASoccer...um, where is the damn link?

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Old 07-29-2009, 10:00 AM   #30 (permalink)
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Thanks Preacher. good points.

You have to find it on the net....
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