08-04-2009, 12:43 AM
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Pullman WA
| | Re: Can a woman truly have a friends with benefits situation without being attached?
lets see here...I did the FWB thing....key word being FRIENDS with benefits. Meaning there is at least a friendship, which you two surely have. My "friend" and I talked on a regular basis, texted, emailed, and cuddled. I think what brings it past the FWB to a relationship is the feelings attached.
Maybe you should just ask her...kind of in a "just checking our status"tyoe way.....what she is thinking and feeling and if it is working out how she had hoped.
If there is a relationship or if there is ever going to be a relationship, good communication is VERY important.
And just for the record, my FWB was very short lived (ended because my h suddenly came back into the picture...LONG story) and it is a good thing because I know I would of developed feelings very quickly for him.
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