Re: Married man and single Female
I can completely understand why you feel let down by your husband in this situation...I experienced something very similar in my first marriage. My ex-husband was emailing and talking to girls on the phone..except it was more than one and it took me a while to figure it out due to his ability to blow sunshine. I did catch him and had conversations with the girls much like you did with your hubby's friend. Most of them either freaked out because they didn't know he was married or apologized and promised to never talk to him again. I know based on my experience how much you want to blame the girl for this situation, but you truly need to focus on what issues may have led him to become so close to her over the past few months. With my ex..I truly never blamed the girls, because it was his decision to talk to them and continue emotional affairs. The girls did not make him do it...he was the married one not them. If your hubby has been friends with her for years, she may not have realized the threat she may have posed. Your hubby must take the responsibility for what has happened and step up to the plate. (I would make him pay the phone bill for one!) His friend may not have even realized until now that ya'll were having problems, and if she has agreed to back off, then the ball lands in your hubby's court. I wish you luck, and I pray that God's Will be done in your marriage. God bless!