Re: What to do? Emotional Affair?
W, well said. Those were my thoughts as well. And it's better to try to shut his behavior down now before it escalates into something else. In my situation I was like lola, just steaming inside, riddled with anger and guilt and pain and all it ended up doing to me was turning me into a resentful person. If I had it to do over again, I would have caused a scene - fought for my marriage. It may have driven her away but then on the other hand, at least I would have done what was right and tried to fight for us. It would have been terrible at first but I would have felt better in knowing that I did what I had to do to fight for me and my marriage. And she may also have seen it as me caring for her so who knows but all I do know is that the biggest mistake I made was not dealing with it no matter how ugly it got.