Re: Husband hurt my feelings but am I wrong for feeling this way?
Whyworry, my husband is not the classically handsome type as far as movie star good looks go (he has had significant scarring on his face for more than 30 years that has made him extremely self conscious), and I have dated some very handsome men, but let me tell you with absolute certainty that there is no face in this world that I find more appealing and attractive than his!! I see his mischievous brown eyes that light up when he smiles at me, I see the love in his gaze when he looks at me, I see the genuine warmth in his expression when I'm telling him about something I'm passionate about and I feel loved and secure when he's with me. He is my best friend, a prankster (just like me), he indulges me when I'm cranky and hugs me when I'm sad.
He told me one time, several years ago, that he was considering plastic surgery to have them removed, and asked what I thought. My response was - if you want to do it, do it for you but please don't do it for me. I honestly don't even see them!
Looks? Seriously, who gives a damn. He is absolutely beautiful to me and I can't imagine looking at any other face but his for the rest of my life!!!
I'll bet you, without a doubt, that your husband feels exactly the same way about you, regardless of how attractive you may or may not actually be.
That's love. ;-)
Last edited by Round2; 10-25-2009 at 09:02 PM.
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