07-02-2013, 04:31 PM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | Re: Wife aroused from looking at women
I think this is a great post as it shows that I am not alone. I am a 40yo women. I too am aroused by the sight of another women more than by a man. I consider myself straight insofar as I have no desire to touch or be touched by a women. Don’t get me wrong, I think it is visually stimulating to see two women together but, I could not see myself being with another women. Perhaps this is MY catholic upbringing so I hear where your wife is coming from. When I watch TV..sometimes it is because she is stunning, other times it can be from just body parts. Kind of makes me like my H. I mean I appreciate a man and have always been drawn to them sexually but, not from a visual standpoint. It is so strange. I too have googled it and it seems to be a relatively common thing. It is totally conceivable that your wife may think you may not understand this strange dichotomy of attraction to one gender yet visually stimulated by another. These thoughts have been confusing to me.
One thing that may be the disconnect (just a thought) is that perhaps your may not think you will understand your desire to seek out pretty women on tv. Women (or at least me), unlike men don’t necessarily driven to achieve an orgasm after a round of visually stimulating viewing. I can enjoy the arousal for the sensation that it brings without the need to “escalate things” perhaps if she totally admitted that she seeks this type of programing for “cheap thrills” that this would flash a “your getting laid tonight” sign which she may not necessarily want. Just a thought.