Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Where I lay my head
Re: Chronicles of the Good Guy
GG.....I can't believe I missed your D thread. Need to read it.
I can relate to how you felt after D and while going thru it, where to meet
people. I'm in the state to your east and in a rural area. I tried dating sites
and was not thrilled at all. Most seemed to be on them for attention and to
play games. From my personal experiences, I was always "eyeing" some girl
when I was blindsided by another. When you are searching for someone, it
never happens. When you stop, they come out of the woodwork. Something like
jobs, when you're frantically searching for one, they fall on deaf ears. Right after
you land a job, every one calls wanting to interview you, even from the resume you
sent out nine months prior. As for the "5 date gal," most women with solid morals
will give clues if they are interested. Blowing you off on that Sunday.... classless.
Luckily the gal I have been seeing, we met by chance before my D was final.
Dating is like acting, you have to get your name out there.
Your taxes will be held up but maybe not audited. X is FOS about not being able
to change them. My X wanted us to file joint last year because she claimed two
and did not pay much in taxes. I downright refused, I was getting $1k back and
she was having to pay in $2k. If she had enough $ to join five dating sites as a
paying member, she must have $ to blow.
......The OM.... doubtful she even cares for him. He is there for convenience.