Re: Two week notice
Triple D did not come to DD graduation, or acknowledge it. He did see a picture one of my sister's posted on FB and liked it, I suppose he thinks that's something. Its not.
Anyway I contacted him in May about processing the paperwork for DD's 529 plan. He could either list me as a co-owner and I would do the grunt work, or take care of the distribution himself. The divorce gave each of us one 529 plan for each DD, and the obligation to split anything else not covered. Triple D said he would process the distribution. I checked in July and nothing had been done, so I sent him an email. I got no response. The girls and I went off on vacation and when we got back, still nothing. I sent him another email telling him the bill was due. No response. So this morning I said he could either respond to my communications or explain this to a judge.
Presto! I got an actual call. He was shocked by my email, he didn't know how to do this, why was I so impatient, why was I so short with him, he promises he'll do it Monday, and was I really taking him to court. I said if he actually does what he's already promised to do, I won't bring this to court. He did not ask to speak with his children.
I think I'll draft a motion up this weekend, just in case.
In youth it was a way I had, to do my best to please, And change, with every passing lad to suit his theories.
But now I know the things I know, and do the things I do; And if you do not like me so, To hell, my love, with you! --Dorothy Parker