Re: Two week notice
I have the child support going through the state, mostly because I knew Triple D was immediately moving out of my state and they handle out-of-state cased far cheaper than I could.
I found the name of his new employer and an address in his new state. The address is definitely not a business address, so I could only assume it is his residence. Then I called the child support office and gave them the info I tracked down. They said they would take it from there.
Yesterday a deposit was made into my account, and I thought, great, the wage-withholding order went through pretty fast. No. I received a call from the child support office saying they could not locate a business address for the employer and had not had any luck contacting Triple D. I told the nice woman that I had a deposit in my account. She looked up the records and said it was under the old wage-withholding order. She guessed it was a payment out of a severance package. No way. He admitted he was fired for cause (again). The woman said she wasn't going to touch a thing until they sort this out.
Triple D posted a picture to a friend's FB page showing him with the new GF, in the new state. So I don't know what's going on. Maybe he went back to the old employer [Unlikely since he was fired for cause-or at least that's what he told me when he said he wasn't getting Unemployment] Maybe its a payment improperly credited to my account from the old employer [if so, I know I will have to pay it back] Maybe he lied the entire time about getting fired and found a way to work under the table.[wouldn't be the first time].
The phone number he gave me when he said he lost the job is no longer working, and his siblings say they don't want to get involved in my money problems.
On a happier note, the girls and I are going off on vacation to a family wedding. I promise not to be too cynical.
In youth it was a way I had, to do my best to please, And change, with every passing lad to suit his theories.
But now I know the things I know, and do the things I do; And if you do not like me so, To hell, my love, with you! --Dorothy Parker