Re: Two week notice
Thanks all for pulling me back.
I tend to agree with every single one of you. If he wants to connect with her, he will, regardless of what I do. He's never been one for putting forth an effort to keep a relationship going, and I suppose for him being a parent is no different.
Part of this is my issue. I tend to think I can fix things and I know I need to stop that mindset. When its my kids and I know what they've already gone through my first reaction is to run in and make things ok. I need to stop that since it really won't help them, or the situation, its me thinking I can control the world. So enough of that.
And the more I thought about what he was asking of me, the more angry I became that my lying, cheating, non-remorseful ex wanted ME to tell his daughter, the very one that discovered his infidelities, that he's "not a bad guy and holding his behavior against him isn't fair." He may never have a clue.