Re: Two week notice
Health-wise I'm ok. Scheduled another minor surgery in a couple of months and since the MD said it was not critical, I'm going on the assumption that its a precautionary procedure just to take care of a potentially troublesome spot.
But the issue I am having is my children's lack of a father.
My oldest DD will be graduating high school next month and heading off to college at the end of the summer. She has chosen not to purchase the official invitations for graduation because of the cost, so any inviting is being handled very informally. I asked her if she was going to contact her father, and she replied "What for?" I am trying to let her take the lead in this, but my Norman Rockwell childhood still has me believing (hoping) that a father would want to be at the graduation ceremony beaming with pride over his child's accomplishments.
And maybe he doesn't know the date, despite the fact that its all over the school website if he chose to look it up.
Of course he's had no contact with the kids or me since January, remains in arrears on the support, and has blown off both DD's birthdays. So why do I still want to believe he would be a father? I'm embarrassed to say this is stressing me out.
Maybe my co-dependency is rearing its ugly head, wanting me to take care of everything and thinking I can fix it?