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post #31 of 32 (permalink) Old 06-25-2015, 01:06 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do

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post #32 of 32 (permalink) Old 09-27-2016, 08:25 AM
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Re: Not sure what to do

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So you suggest I do the same as she does? To stoop down to her level? No thanks.
This too shall pass.
My ultimate goal is to have somewhat healthy co-parenting relationship with her, maybe not any time soon...but by adding more fuel to the fire and making the situation even worse I'd be farther away from my goal.
I'm going Gandhi on her a**.
My BF that I have been living with for 3 years tried to live this approach to his first Ex. His sons Mother. For 17 years she has continued to manipulate his life and he has let her. And now still today, Son just went to college, she controls every decision in his life concerning son and personal life. She has caused him to feel that all he is a sperm donor and a paycheck. He is a great father. Has Always payed and still is child support always had his visitation that she allowed. Always until i came into the picture, did and payed for every event that occured...She doesnt like me being in her sons life so no more group events. This will affect you for your entire life. I see this post was over a year ago. But that is my experience. How are things for you now?

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