07-17-2011, 12:24 PM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Advice needed.... kinda like someone
ok.... so i have been slowly moving on, happy where i am, how far i have come, who i am now and what i want in life. This divorce has been such an eye opener and has truely allowed me to see the good and bad in my marriage and I am ready to move on and have a happy life.
I met a guy through a mutual friend a couple months ago who is going through the same thing I am. Caught his wife cheating on him the same time my ex left me so we have been in the same boat as far as emotionally, dealing with life, figuring out what is next, we understand each other, plus we are both Virgos.
Anyways, I am intrigued about him and want to get to know him better...he is still finalizing paperwork and i know it took me a while to move on, So i am not sure if on my part i should just be there for him as a friend and let him figure out what he wants and when he is ready? He texts me, we have met up in group situations before....how do i know how slow or fast or soon or not to persue this? I mean i am not looking seriously, but he catches my eye! I think i have forgotten how to do all this! LOL