Re: Self damnation? Do I like the bad boys!?
I am wondering if its logical to actually label anyone of particular, a "bad boy" or the opposite of one. I dont believe men are "one or the other", and its not a very enlightened viewpoint to have if searching for someone serious. Being attracted to that facade, is one thing, but what do you really end up with?
It seems contrary to the realistic nature of one man from another.
Is the attitude a facade looking to draw attention? Is he really a bad boy, having done time in federal prison, or an accountant with tattoos that enjoys his Harley and can shoot well.
Is he a man that acknowledges the importance of his role and support of a family, works his behind off to at least help in the provision for them, and is a positive influence on the children?
I think there is no such thing as a bad boy, nor is there the opposite.
These generalizations, or groupings going by looks or whats presented as who they are seems unhealthy to me.
His delay, is not a denial.