09-30-2011, 11:18 PM
Join Date: Jan 2011
Originally Posted by Lostouthere
Hrmm and could be that the ex might be realizing that grass not greener and she having her mother to call you and test the water first. Just throwing it out there lol.
That's not it. I am sure of it because ex is and has been with OM since even before our divorce was official. Ex is happy with him, and that is hard to acept but it is reality so i have to deal withnit. I think my ex-MIL may be feeling guilty because she is one of about 4 people that knew my ex was having an emotional affair. It's her daughter so i understand she has to support her, but at some point we're all adults now and maybe she could say to her daughter, "i dont support or condone what you did!". Regardless, what's done is done....but i really did love my ex-inlaws and it hurts not having them in my life. I just think that if i am ever able to truly move on, it might have to be without them.
Just very conflicted because i hadnt heard from any of them in 6 months and then...BAM! Posted via Mobile Device