Re: One month divorced, exwife has date...
Oh yeah. Still sleeping in the same bed. One month after divorce, and uh, yeah. Its not from a sense of trying to cling to her or our past or anything. Maybe its obstinance? I dont know. I dont think about it much. Ive been focused on the new house, and trying to get into it as soon as freaking possible. All these hiccups with it makes for a long week. I am hoping I can get everything including closing resolved in no more than 2 weeks.
Plus, we bought that bed back in Dec of last year. While she was still carrying on with her secret EA, she had me convinced we were trying to work things out. These were her words, that she wanted to work things out. We had an old mattress we had slept on for years and years, that was fit to be burned. It got so bad that we both had backaches and all. So in the midst of our "false R" we got the idea to go get a new bed and see if we could get better sleep.
She talked me into cosigning on the credit card for the mattress store, and I also had to lay a few hundred down because the available credit didnt cover the cost of the bed. Yeah, you'd think it was made of pea**** feathers and gold threads.
It was a realllllly niiiiice mattress. Slept so great.
But it was purchased with my investment, under a false promise of working things out. While things were still going on strong between her and OM.
So,, my current frame of mind is like,, fk it. Im going to sleep in that bed until the day I move out, and if shes uncomfortable with me in it, then theres always the couch.
I will be damned if I sleep on the couch after all this.
I have had a revelation.
I am looking forward to passing on that baton.
This dog bit the hand that feeds it way too many times, and its time to turn it loose.
His delay, is not a denial.