Divorced woman this confused???
I am a divorced male with kids dating a divorced woman with kids.
Any advice here would be helpful to help me understand this situation.
About 6 weeks ago met a girl and he had great chemistry. She said she is divorced, totally over ex, starting life over in my state.
Quickly she suggested we live together. Asked if I am seeing anyone else etc. Then one day she went to visit her kids in another state and came back to text me "I am working things out with him so I can see my kids"
I was shocked but let it go. She then started texting me an hour later how much she misses me, feels she is making a mistake etc.
So we continued to see each other. She suggests we move in together again, buy a home together etc. (she inherited a lot of money as dad just died)
Once again she visits kids and just changes her number!! I call her mom to see what happened, then the gf calls to tell me she is working things out with the ex again.! Once again, a few hours later she misses me, wants to see me etc.
So we continue to date. Then one day she just says she is moving, is renting s home to be close to her kids in the other state, but wand to see me once a month. I tell her I will be dating other people as a long distance relationship isn't for me.
So she is basically staying in the other state with her ex husband even though she rented her own house. She said he knows about me etc.
So now she came back again, saw me more, and told me she wants to live with me during the week, and travel to see her children on the weekends. This was 4 days ago. She is staying with her ex for the final weekend, (again) but assured me she is totally over him and needs to move on.
She was texting me day and night but now has been total silence for past 4 days.
Is she that confused? Wants to have both men?
Just odd when talking to her in person and she is sooo positive about what she wants, then when out of sight changes mind instantly.
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