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I learned fast to get everything in before the month of October. DCs favorite (well 2nd) holiday is Halloween. -For the entire month I like to .... blah blah blah- Halloween? Maybe it's just me.... never was a ghouls and goblins person. Living near the National Park... we decided to camp for a few days. My version of camping is quite primitive compared to hers. DC wanted lights and water hook ups. That just isn't true camping to me. All I ever use is a tent, if even that. We used her uncle's mini camper. Nothing like grilling out near a large stream. The water can almost put you to sleep itself. We make small talk with campers around us... I was speaking with an older female a few spots away. We exchange names and have funny looks on our faces. "Is your H xx?" -Yes he is and you had to have played on one of his teams.- Ibedamn.... it's the coach I had wrote about in an article for the paper about three years ago (think I actually posted it on GutPunch's thread). I'm now the age he was then... it was really strange. Had an enjoyable night of catching up. They're there camping roughly 75% of the time since retirement. Beyond ironic....

I'm not an excellent cook by any stretch. Turning over the kitchen to someone... I'm not really fond of. Only person I had turned it over to was WC.... granted she could cook me under the table in twelve seconds. Never let UG have it..... nor any of the overnighters or FWB. Gotsta say... DCs took it over. I admit... I'd rather be out in the garage or doing something outside. DC even made fried potatoes, hadn't ate those in at least ten years. We're in the den slow dancing to Kenny G and the phone rings. Wonderful.... it's mom. It goes to VM..... check it, she babbled on and on about a carpet cleaner (already have one) on QVC for $xxx on payments of $xx. During the entire VM she acted as if nothing had happened. Either she is in complete denial or she can't remember a Gdamn thing. Didn't ruin the night but I wish I hadn't checked the VM until the next day.

Recently we were out on the back deck chatting about whatever.... -Ya know... I've heard all about how bad arse your homemade chili is.... Why don't you make it?- "Ain't right weather, don't make it in summertime. Plan to make it to kick-off first Steeler game." -If you make it now.... I will cover your eats at the casino- That's saying a lot, they have an Italian bistro there. Made the chili.... -think I'll like it- "Safe to say you will" Suffice to say she put some back for her parents and kid brother. -If you can make this right before one of my Halloween festivals, I'll take it and sell it. $5 a bowl easy.- "We'll see.... would be nice... I make at least 25 "healthy servings" each time."

We hit the lake at just before sunrise. Yes... "the lake." Swam a bit after watching the sun come up and the most amusing thing occurred. Large bubbles came upward to the surface. She was embarrassed, I LMFAO. -Guess we're a couple, we've farted around each other now- I flashbacked to the girl who would take open door #2s at my place back in 2015.... couldn't stop laughing but couldn't tell her why.

Sometime last month DC decided to get away for an evening. -Somewhere close, my treat- We hopped up to the Tail of the Dragon, my death location if I still rode a bike. I love speed... I wouldn't be here today if I still rode. Stayed at a really nice place on the lake. She seriously contemplated stealing the mattress -best damn one I've ever slept on- Had a few drinks at the lake... weird sensation came over me, like it's 'you're where you should be with who you should be with' Hadn't felt that in 20 years. On the way back we stopped at the casino, each took in $200. Didn't take long for her to flush $120 and me $40. We didn't look to stay long... we walked around a bit, she picked a machine, sat beside her. We chatted about how nice the room was as we both were losing money. Interesting thing happened... lower cost machines aren't that hard to read if you know what to look for... went max bet and pulled in $600. Unless I have money to burn, I cash out after I at least double my cash. Can always come back another day.

DC was down to $20 and a voucher for almost $20. Tried a few machines, told her when to hit single bet, 2x, 3x, 4x and max. Got her back up to around $400. "Almost lost your shirt now you are double, pocket and go home a winner." -WTF you know when to bet small and when to hit max... what are you Rainman?- It was pretty damn comical to say the least but it was a good time to mention my ADHD in a non-humor tone and my autism. -I could tell you were quite a bit ADHD back at school but I never thought autism- "Very slight autism but read up on tendencies and you'll notice. Very controlled, no medication, use it for my benefit, not detriment." Nice ride home.... weird thing happened that night. Wasn't 30 minutes after she left, already began to miss her.

Attended a UT game for the first time in I'd say 30 years. You enter through a breezeway with a great view of the river. Sad that incline is at least 40 degree. Happy to say I made it up without sucking air and my legs were just fine. DC was winded. Understandable legs sore but winded at her age? I'll touch on this later but she is a closet smoker. Game was supposed to be a blow out but ended up being a nail biter. Went into overtime, UT won. While we were leaving... she was mentioning all the places there on campus, made me partially wish I had went away to college. All the parties, celebrations.... DCs stories about hers while at a "Christian" university LOL. Egh... was what it was. Wouldn't have ever met 2nd love had I went away. Plus I'm sure mom would've demanded to go away with me.... what fun!!!

Things are well, actually so well it scares me. WTF is the bad luck bus going to hit? For now... really like where I am at. Kinda like how I felt 25 years ago..... Hmmmm...

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Nice update, Chuck.

DeMello would tell you to enjoy her today while not worrying about what may or may not actually happen tomorrwo.

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Wise man DeMello is

Yoda he remind me

unchannel the fear of this

then shall you be free

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Damn Chuck.......you almost sound dare I say......Happy

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Damn Chuck.......you almost sound dare I say......Happy

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LOL.... after mom's quackery, an IRS audit would be a walk in the park! Posts are being caught up to about a week back. Don't fret... there's a schitstorm coming. VERY similar to E58s current post.

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LOL.... after mom's quackery, an IRS audit would be a walk in the park! Posts are being caught up to about a week back. Don't fret... there's a schitstorm coming. VERY similar to E58s current post.
Tease.

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Tease? A tease? LMAO ..... To bring everything up to date, we have been getting along better than either of us expected. About every time we go out, I say or do something that makes her go to the bathroom because her eyeliner is running down her face. -I am smitten for you- "Whaht... you're schitten for you?" I'd say the best one had to be near the Tail of the Dragon... DCs car has more buttons than those jackets Michael Jackson made famous in the early 1980s. She said this was for the air on my side. So I would punch it... then notice it was turned off later. Okay... no problem. This time she saw me do it and wondered -WTF is he doing- She turned it off and asked why I kept turning it on. It ended up being the rear window defogger. I was turning the damn thing on in 98 degree weather. I laughed until tears were in my eyes, she laughed so hard we almost went off the road. "Pull over, you're gonna kill us."

Guys... we all have fanaticized about driving down the road, late at night, and the female giving head. Why late at night? LOL no traffic... our thoughts would be pre-occupied. Well... same goes for the female when she is driving. I guess that's one of the good things about getting to know one another. You learn the points, angle, motion. When she runs over a curb, now that's not fun at all. Her dad... huge Auburn fan. Asked if I could get seats, not the pricey ones, for a home game against a nobody team. Grabbed four tickets, much cheaper than I had thought! I asked a fellow TAM guy who is a die hard Auburn fan, where to go, where to park, what to do before game. BTW... thanks for the advice! Thursday rolled around and her dad could not make the trip. So we have two extra tickets. Let me correct myself... I had three extra. First off.... I'm not an Auburn fan, neither is DC. Her dad was wanting to come down and see my Corvette and... to see his daughter (in that order he said LOL).

Thursday afternoon I was out back working on my fire pit. Passed some time knife tossing. I live in the country... phones do not work in the back after you go behind the pool, the deck, the fence and walk into the woods. Did DC know where I was, she did. We chat on the phone mostly, sometimes FB back chat. When I came in.... eight VMs, at least ten FB messages. Long story short ... her car laid down on her, everything went dead. Ummm.. she ran out of gas. I had mentioned she needed some the night before when I checked her oil and fluids. I tell everyone, especially females, to carry a gallon of gas with them in case they run out in a "bad location" She closet smokes in her car so she was afraid to. Anyhow... I called her and got the following

Where were you? Why didn't you answer the fvcking phone? Why didn't you put gas in my car? What kind of man are you? I almost called my daddy! I had to call a co-worker and HE came out to help me!

Ahhhh "I will respond when you calm down." -WTF won't you talk to me now, cause you know you messed up- I hung the phone up.... I will not be screamed at. Ten minutes passed... she called. Was calmer. I went over every question she asked.... "You knew where I was, what I was doing, phones don't get out in the woods. You knew that when you left work." She agreed... de-escalated. -Why didn't you put gas in my car?- "You're 24, a college graduate and soon to be a graduate with an MBA. I do feel you are fully capable of putting gas in your own car......I" She exploded again, I hung up.

She was planning to come by that evening around 7:30. I did hang around. It was getting late and I went to my Italian bistro to grab lasagna since our planned dinner went in the schitter. Of course when I arrived at home, wild guess who is in the driveway. DC was somewhat calmed down.... -Let's go in and eat and we can talk afterwards- I agreed... When DC learned I had just got dinner for myself.... it was World War III. -So you didn't get me anything... Are you saying I'm fat?- I honestly started laughing. She grabbed her keys to leave, I went out on the back deck. I was not surprised... I knew this would happen. I just get a sense from people... you know it will happen, before it happens. Yes I knew this with mom but FFS.. only got one mom.

It was around 10:30, DC came to the deck.... -I think I'm going to go- "Drive safely" What I really wanted to say was 'make sure you got enough gas to get home' but I chose otherwise. She sat down... silence. "When I told you, you needed gas... did you expect me to take your car down that night and gas it up?" -No- "Now if you had twisted your ankle and had trouble standing, would you have asked me to gas your car?" -I wouldn't have wanted to but yes I would have asked you- "And if you had asked me that night, to run to the station with you, to pump your gas, do you think I would have?" -Of course you would have- "That's my point.... since you did not gas your car, look what happened. And you went off on me, like it was my fault that you.... did not... get gas. TBH... I can't understand WTF we are even having to discuss this." "Oh... and the take out... you were said to be here at 7:30... you weren't, no call, no message... it was near 10 and I concluded you ain't coming."

I know DC understood clearly what I said. She also knew I was not wavering. But she was still upset. But at who??? Take a guess what came next.... -I don't really care about going to the game, it was dad's idea to begin with.- "Guess I'm the dolt with four tickets and no one wants to go" -Go by yourself... or take some friends- "Matter of fact I may see if xxx and xxx want to go (Hangover Crew guys and still wanted to keep one free in case she changed her mind)." -Oh I bet you'd like that.... three wild guys around a ton of younger women- "WTFE....I can't tell you what to think, that's up to you." That was about it....

Hangover Crew couldn't go... only one day notice. That's what happens when some are M or have live-ins n kids. I recalled a girl I went out with earlier this year had a son who loved Auburn. Sent message, she accepted the tickets at what I paid for them, so I did get back the cash for three of the four tickets. The girl asked -But aren't you going too? We don't know how to get there. My son is bringing a friend and they both love sports and... you being a sports writer.....- I explained the situation about DC and she understood but said she'd love for me to go... she'd furnish the car, gas... everything but what I wanted to get at the stadium. Didn't plan on going, asked her to see if anyone she knew would want the last ticket. Friday came n went.... no message from DC. Saturday morning... I thought.... why am I not going to the game because of what transpired. I took her up on the offer.

Had a blast! Saw Toomer's Corner, tried their lemonade, watched the team do their walk, saw the eagle before the game. Got to see the students roll the trees after the win... first time they could do that since the trees were poisoned about ten years ago. Now THAT was college life! Her son wants to go to Auburn... after all I saw, LOL so would I. I did receive a message from DC... -Did you get rid of the tickets- at 8:00 that night. Sent her a pic of me and the two guys, and his mom. -WTF is she?- "His mom." -Don't take you long to find someone else to fvck- "You're making extremely broad accusations based on zero merit" Tirade ensued... "I am willing to talk after you learn to curb your profanity."

Took longer than I thought.... will finish rest later.
BTW.... I do wish for us to work through this. Any other female I had dated since late 2012.... it would have already been ended. 99.9% of the time I am not the one to sling schit; which gives me full rights to not take it from others, 99.9% of the time.

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After the game, we took the old 27 back home. I will do anything to avoid Atlanta, plus the girl is a horrible night driver so I drove home. Got back home around 5AM. Yes I had VMs and messages. I was in no mood to talk. I messaged "I didn't have to send a photo with her in it. Had I had an interest in her, she would not have been in the pic. I have done nothing wrong and will NOT take the blame for your miscalculations. That is the very root of this. You made a mistake and expected me to apologize for it. Won't happen. Want a guy like that, you have no business seeing me then." Had to take a gulp when I sent that. But you have to be that way. Call it my first big schit test.

Watched the opening week of NFL action. My team didn't play until the next evening. As Sunday night crept in... I started the prep for homemade chili. Doorbell rang... I was extremely pizzed.... no one called and said they're coming over and I prefer to be left the fvck alone when I make my chili (takes around 4-5 hours). He!!s bells... it's DC and she was carrying her favorite pillow. -I'm sorry for blowing things out of proportion. I wanted to blame you for my screw ups. Can you ever forgive me?- Sex that night was pretty damn nice! We chatted while I did the chili but I didn't let her in the kitchen until I was finished and asked her to taste test it. Homemade chili is always best the second day and that night was Pittsburgh time. While she got ready the next morning, I give her the master bathroom -more lights, mirrors, room-, I heard cannon fire. She thought I was out on the deck.... I wasn't. Pop always told me, "When they start farting at your house, they got no plans of leaving."

DC got to see me during a Steeler game on the tele. -I never imagined you screaming, cussing your own team. Thought you were just joking when you told me you were this way when you watch them.- "Been like this 30+ years, warned you back in June." DC didn't see me at my worst... which is when they have the lead and blow it against a team they should have easily thumped. If Pittsburgh is just clearly beaten... I can handle that. When they're on the tele, I record it and wait until the second quarter to start watching, cuts out all the commercials. Guess I like my fix in a shorter amount of time. We had started watching the first of the game around the halftime mark in real time. We hear a bang on the door....

It was the police. -Does xxx (mom) still reside here?- I said no. -We have reason to believe she is out in these parts and may come by here. When is the last time you saw her?- I said about six weeks ago, he asked why... wanted to say MYOFB but that is their job. Explained all the details. -Do you know where she may be residing?- "Who called this in?" -Her sister- "Then she obviously knows where she lives right?" (I already knew mom was back at the same place she was at when DC kept asking me to at least see where she is. I'm still 110% NC with mom but yeah, can't help but worry) I explained how my ex aunt is a typical drama queen, etc. Mom never showed up that night. Thank God.

I think we're partially over the hump. I know addressing things when they occur may leave a few cuts but those heal. Bricks in the wall... is what makes The Wall. I'm not far from saying ILY, hadn't said it in over two years. No... saying it during great sex doesn't count. The only thing we had a disagreement on was when she spoke about a Christmas tree. -Do you do a tree?- "Not recently.... think I've put up one since 2011 (UG back in 2013, DC knows the dates while with 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, sure she figured it out)." -You have to have one.... I'll .... etc- "Fair enough but no fake trees, real tree or no tree." DC hasn't had a real tree since she was in elementary school. Yes they are MUCH easier to take down but nothing beats the smell of a real one. It's like canned biscuits compared to homemade biscuits. -Maybe I will like it but you have to clean up after it's taken down- Fair enough!

Latest Window Cork sighting..... got a FB message from my XW. After her stint three states away, she is returning home! UGH.... WC stated -My soulmate just died of a heart attack and since we were never married and nothing was in my name, his family wants me to leave. I'm coming back home and wondered if I could have one of those dog kennels I purchased. Would love to catch up with you!-

I spewed Coke from laughter. I have no clue if he did die, not my business, but in her full context I surmise she is returning to the area. 1-Never married her.... he was smarter than I was, 2-Now you're a property wh0re? 3-The kennels that "you" bought... LMAO... the level of contempt to ask me that after being D nearly four years. 4-She needs a place to stay! The sociopath in me is smiling profusely!!! Non-friends cannot see most of my personal info. WC has no clue I am seeing someone, neither does her long time friends who are here. Desperation... yeah. Maybe her returning can help her now criminal son, I doubt it... much too late. I did show it to DC. Of course DC was -Do you want her back- "You have to be schitting me... seriously???" DC read the crap WC posted... -She wants to come home (move in with me)- "The he!! you say!" I showed her a pic of WC and I from years ago..... -wow she was very pretty- then one of WC on her dating sites from 2013 -oh dear, what happened?- "Here's her name, FB lurk her page all you want, I have nothing to hide." -She ever comes to your door while I'm here, I'll answer it.-

Somewhere Darwin is smiling....

PS-WC left a few pieces of furniture here since she was moving into a studio after the D. $250 says she will ask if she can have them now since she is returning home with nothing but the clothes on her back and those puppies....

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WC is pretty damn bold.

You know her showing up at your door is not a hypothetical, right?

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Picture Tammy Brady vs. the 1977 Steeler defense on steroids....

Yes... THAT nasty

As for Luke vs. Vader... I wouldn't need a light sabre this time


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Regarding the gas incident … who is raising these young women to be “damsels in distress”? Red Flags are flying all over the place Chuck, proceed with caution. You did handle the situation well I must say.

My daughter is 23 and would have called AAA (which she pays for), that is if she had actually let herself run out of gas.

Nice save on the game tickets.
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Holy smokes Chuck, that was quite the thread I'm catching up on!

I would put $20 on WC showing up at your door if she knows where you live. Bank it.

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Regarding the gas incident … who is raising these young women to be “damsels in distress”? Red Flags are flying all over the place Chuck, proceed with caution. You did handle the situation well I must say.

My daughter is 23 and would have called AAA (which she pays for), that is if she had actually let herself run out of gas.

Nice save on the game tickets.
The way I see it... if DC ran out of gas when she lived back home, her dad would run to the rescue and not even preach to her about avoiding these situations. But I agree RS... too many females expect to be catered to hand over feet from around 16 to 28. Notice I never dated a female seriously in her 20s until now (2nd love was teen when met but was in her 20s near the end of our 5 year deal).

Her mom is more "get your schit together girl." Somewhat how mom was with me as a kid but pop was a lot more firm. I saw this as a schit test. Oh I'm sure things would have went better (for time being) had I caved but.... she would have lost some respect for me. Had DC called and said she forgot to get gas and I'm sure I ran out, can you help me out by bringing gas......... I would have done it ASAP. DC didn't want to "own her mistakes." That's one thing I learned about my XW during the D.

I don't see something similar to this happening again. She knows better now. In the beginning of a LTR, it is human to test the other's boundaries. Will there be more schit tests.... oh yeah! Example... we always did something together on Saturdays. I made plans for the upcoming Saturday and she said she would like to have some "retail therapy" with her g/fs. "That's cool." -I guess you'll just hang out around the house?- "Nah... I'll see what the Hangover Crew is up to, if not... I can go see xxx (band mate from HS days) play at xxxxx (a bar... yes... a higher end bar where 21-35s hang out). DC had the 'oh... okay' look on her face. It reinforced I will not sit at home while you do thing with your friends plus.... I really would not have wanted to go with her.... DC was traveling 100 miles to a store for "her specific type of bra" and shopping. Would I ask her if I could go with her... oh he!! no! That's a huge mistake..... Now if she asked me to go with her.... I probably would have but I would have her drop me off at the Harley store and return when she was done trying on "over the shoulder boulder holders."

I'm old school in the fact it is a courtesy to pump gas for the female. Oh... I've shocked many a female over the years. But..... I prefer to be asked... I guess if a female is all decked out, prim n proper, gas fumes aren't desired. As long as I am asked beforehand or thanked afterwards... I don't mind at all. Just like when DC is over and without me asking... starts a load of clothes and / or folds / hangs clothes. I don't have to ask her anymore.... but I make sure to thank her for her help. Same thing with food. DC brings food over she pays for, cooks it... for me! Do that a few times a week and I have NO qualms about taking her out to eat at a nice place.

Again.... life is not complicated, we human just make it such.

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Holy smokes Chuck, that was quite the thread I'm catching up on!

I would put $20 on WC showing up at your door if she knows where you live. Bank it.
I was about to ask you for an update on your thread...... "TGG stop wearing out the mattress with her and give us inquiring people an update"

At the moment WC has no clue I am serious with anyone. DC (Debts n Credits) is not a big fan of FB (thank God). If I profiled WC correctly... she will ask to come over first. But I could be wrong. WC knows where I live... same house we lived in from 2005-12. There are three or four things WC left due to her moving into a studio right after the D. Very nice dining table, super nice hutch, nice end tables... can't recall the other. It's been almost four years since our D was final... Six weeks away from DDay four years ago.

WC does not have a pot to pizz in minus the clothes on her back and those fvcking puppies. Of course she wants one of the kennels (if not both), plus the furniture (hasn't asked yet but I foresee it). That would help her out in almost furnishing an apartment.... watch her ask about the bed LOL .... that was burned back in 2013 and the head / foot boards donated to Goodwill. Or she can just make a full sweep and move back in LOL ..... The day I allow her to move back in with me is the day Hillary and Trump do an XXX rated porn video together.

In the near future I see DC probably staying over here a lot more. As pop would say.... she is marking her territory.

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Sorry, I haven't heard that one since my Dad passed.
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