Re: I'm officially single!
While jumping right in may work for some people, I am going to offer a different perspective. Embrace your pain and use it to grow. The things you are feeling, you are supposed to feel. Yes, life is short, which is exactrly why you should learn from your experience, otherwise you will wind up in the same place sometime in the future. That is why it is important to figure out who you are, what you want, what you need and where you want to go and with whom or by yourself. In the meantime, be gentle with yourself, go out experience, explore see, do and discover. If you do something you don't like or makes you feel bad? Chalk it up to experience and keep on trying.
At the center of every moMEnt of my life is ME!