Re: Dating after divorce
Just a few issues that we're having. She had minor outpatient "surgery", and she's been in a lot of pain, but doesn't want to go anywhere. First off, I offered to go with her to the doctor, but she declined. I offered to picker her up and take her out or back to my place to relax, she declined. She wanted me to come with her and stay with her. Normally, if she had her own place, no doubt. However, she lives with her parents and sisters at 28. Plus, they have two dogs which I am allergic to. I love dogs, but my eyes get beet red, puffy and itchy to the point I cannot see. She also wanted me to sleep at her parents house in their spare bedroom. I just feel funny and told her my concerns. She said I should put my issues aside and deal with it. Also, the Mom is a busy body.. Complains that we switch off on the dinners, and that I don't always pick her up (she has a car. I agreed to swtich on that too, not enough).
She wanted to go somewhere for New Years, so Imboked a nice hotel and made us plans. Cost me a nice chunk of dough. Becuase of her "surgery", she asked me to pick up her bag from her house. A week before, she said she'd drop it off, but now, she asked me to pick it up. I said I will on my way home. She said she wasn't feeling well, and had to sleep, so not to come by. Six hours later, around 8pm, she texted me to come pick up the bag, she'll lave outside. I said, I am not your slave. I offered earlier, you declined. I am not driving 30 mins there, then 30 mins back for a bag. She cannot drive because she is on Oxycotin. I asked if your parents or one of your sisters to drop it off. She said no. I said, well, I guess you will be bringing it with you to work. She then rwnted and raved ln me. Then said what if you come by before work and meet me at the train station. I said sure. Then she said, no, how about you meet me at my house and pick it up instead? Said no, it's too out of my way in the opposite direction of my commute. She replied, guess I am not going then, I said fine,. I think she didn't want me to meet her at the train station because I'd see her driving. Just a guess.
Anyway, she got sick, so we couldn't go. Lost the miney on the tickets to the event and the hotel room. She then complained that we didn't do anything for New Years.
Seems like a completely different person than five months ago. Told her nothing I do is good enough for her and I am at my wits end. She said she is too. She then said whatever and not continuing this conversation, then stopped repling.