Yea, I like your username too.
I felt bad that she's having issues, so I offered to drive by after work, she said she was going to sleep. Fair enough. Hours later, she then started the rant. It was very bewildering and shocking at the same time. Yes, I felt like she was attempting to treat me like a doormat. I saw it a mile away, so I said no. She then offered to meet me the next morning half way, I said fine. Then, she changed to just come to pick it up at my house, no. That was where it was left. She was nice for a couple of days and I felt bad, so I offered to bring over her gifts and left it outside (my idea). She also caught the stomach virus. She thanked me for the gifts and said she loved them. Two days later, this crap happened out of no where. It's been three days since I heard from her. Seriously, just a nutty situation. This came out of left field.
I am getting to like the solo life more and more. Regretfully, relationships, at least in my area, are just not worth it. This one was fine til two weeks ago. I have no idea what the f is going on. However, I learned from my x-wife a bit, so I caught it pretty fast. Even I told myself this isn't good. I was told I am not trying hard enough because she's in pain. Let's go over what I offered and did:
1. Offered to go the doc with her. She said no.
2. Offered to pick her up and take her out and do things or come to my place to relax. She said no.
3. Spend over a thousand dollars (which I've now lost) for a NYE event and hotel reservation. She got sick. Not her fault. However, zero appreciation.
4. Brought her over x-mas gifts and some drinks (Gatorade for the stomach virus - 24 bottles).
What she wanted. Me to stay with her with her parents and two sisters and sit with her while she was sick (so I got sick too. Her Mom is now sick as well). Also, I am allergic to dogs, she as two of them. I am supposed to sit there and suffer through it. My eyes are still red, swollen and peeling from my last encounter with them. Plus, one doesn't shut up. Just barks like the day is long. So, all in all, just because she's suffering, I should also be in pain so I can suffer too?
What the ....?