Should we remain friends?
We had some issues were she accused me of cheating and hide things from her, and all of the sudden she started with the i can't deal with this anymore and filled for divorce. I tried everything possible to bring her back and fix things, but i also found out she had a friend (co-worker) i confronted her about this guy, because he texted her a lot but she always denied it and of course because she filled, she felt she didn't need to give me an explanation.
After all was set and done, and i came across a conversation she had with her friend, and of course she all of the sudden was speechless.
I always wanted to have some sort of connection with her after divorce because she is the mother of my children, and i don't want to feel disconnected, but after the discovery is hard for me to even say hi, because after all those years of accusing me, and denying her affair, i showed her i was right, it wasn't me all this time it was her having an affair.
I just want to know, how should i handle this going forward, kids are and i make it my priority to see them as much as possible and be in their life, but i know situations will pop up were we might need to talk or even attend together as parents, and i can't lie, right at this moment i have 0 respect for her and nothing good will come out my mouth if she says the wrong thing to me.
Looking forward to some feedback, and thanks for reading this mess