Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Where I lay my head
Re: Anniversary Date
First anniversary apart.... yeah... Wedding was four months later in year
from D final. The other... day we met, six months. We were together 15.5
years. Virtually 25-40 for me. I dreaded our wedding ann. I thought it would
really get to me.... didn't. Maybe bothered me 5% what I expected it to. Our
day we met ann. I honestly forgot... says a lot for me, history buff, extremely
sharp on remembering dates. I didn't even post on my thread about the wedding ann.
I think I posted something about it on Zillard 's thread a day or two later.
If memory serves.... I grabbed a box of baseball cards, busted packs, ate at my fav
Italian bistro, and my post D gf and I went to the lake.
If you have hobbies you enjoy, do one of those that day. Be around a few male friends....
Oh.... your XW asking you to go eat on your ann. LOL Get this... after the D was final,
my new XW showed a great deal of concern for me in the courthouse parking lot. Even
asked if I wanted to go eat that afternoon. And.... wanted us to go out sometime after
she got settled into her new studio. LOL can't make this schit up!
A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
C-Never make the person in your present pay for the sins committed by people from your past