11-25-2011, 01:48 PM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Re: Anyone Out There For Me
Originally Posted by unreal
I have been through a divorce, which was best for both of us, however I have had a lot of bad luck with girls in the past right from school to my marriage something always seems to go wrong and I am losing hope if my soul mate is out there. I am a simple guy with simple work, but in a complicated world where money talks and personality is extinct nowadays from people I see.
Anyone been in my situation and see a new light?
I can say that I can relate. I never had a lot of luck with relationships until I met my x-wife in my early 20s. We married, and I thought I had my soul mate until she wanted a divorce after 18 years because she "wasn't happy."
I feel like I am just too plain and simple for people today. I guess I'm just living like my parents did and thought that was a great life for anyone. We were a middle class family. My dad had a great job at a factory and my mother stayed home with us kids. We weren't "on the go" all the time. We weren't vacation people. I spent the summer playing with my cousin riding bikes and doing all the outdoor stuff that young boys do. We loved being at home.
I'm currently in my 40s and continue to enjoy that lifestyle. I've noticed that most middle class people my age aren't happy unless they are on the move all the time. They go on two or three vacations every year, have a boat, a camper, and everything else under the sun.
Being a simple guy like me just doesn't attract a lot of attention these days. To answer your question, though, I'm sure there is someone for you. I'm just seem to be enjoying myself too much to want another relationship.