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post #16 of 17 (permalink) Old 10-26-2016, 05:29 PM
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Re: I feel like my life has fell apart

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My only comment is this : NO ONE IS COMING TO SAVE YOU!

When you realize that no one is coming to save you and truly accept that your life is in your hands, your future is in your hands, your happiness is in your hands, you will round a corner and start to feel better. Focus on your self and stop focusing on others.

I went thru the same thing as you are. Most of us have. I am still learning what I want and what I don't want. It is a life long adventure, embrace it and enjoy it.
Those highlighted words.

This triggered Benghazi nightmares for me.

OP.....this is good advice. Who better to save you then the man that looks "back at ya" in the mirror. He has your best interests in mind and he has your back...., hic, back-up plan.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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Re: I feel like my life has fell apart

Her H she had the kids with left her. You said she had different men in and out of her life until

you came along. That should have been a red flag. Now she's with a guy from three states away.

What type of "candy" did she offer him.... I bet the same kind she offered you. It shouldn't take

long before this guy wises up. Take a guess who she will start fishing for again... yeah, you.

The truly sad part is look what her actions have / will do to her kids.... parading men in and out.

That alone makes her a complete lowlife. Move away from her toxicity.

Work on yourself, re-discover your hobbies. Before you know it, she will be a distant memory.

Stay in touch with the kids BUT do not let them pull you into her toxic world.

A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
C-Never make the person in your present pay for the sins committed by people from your past
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