Re: almost 6 years later
Crankshaw do you think you are teaching her a lesson? Do you think by moving away and buying another house your life is moving on? You need to realize you will forever be hand cuffed to this woman unless you divorce her. Is the price of a divorce so high you would rather live in spite the rest of your life? Have you looked at a dissolution? A few hundred dollars in filing fees is all it cost.
Honestly you are only hurting yourself, and intentionally undermining any chance of moving on to a happier life. Is it possible subconsciously that's what you think you deserve?
to be thinking I was teaching her a lesson would involve some sort of contact, there is *NO* contact, so, no, I do not think I am teaching her a lesson.
I move away for (silly me!) love, which turned out to be nothing that it portrayed to be, that was 2 years ago, buying a house is me moving on, gaining my independence.
The price of divorce is high enough for me to not bother with it, I have much better things to spend my hard earned $$ on
Happiness is not a life without pain, but rather a life in which the pain is traded for a worthy price.
I love standing in the pouring rain because you can cry to your hearts content, and no one will know.