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post #16 of 21 (permalink) Old 11-15-2016, 03:53 PM
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Then IMO it's his fault. Stop feeling guilty over other people's decisions. I learnt that recently, it's a liberating thing.


Sure. It is great to be selfish and uncaring. If everyone was, we would not need TAM.

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Re: What do you do with the rebound?

Selfish and uncaring?! OP has done everything to let him know where he stood, but he still continued to ignore it - as was HIS choice. She's not leading him on, why should she accuse herself of that?!

She's been straight up with him!
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Selfish and uncaring?! OP has done everything to let him know where he stood, but he still continued to ignore it - as was HIS choice. She's not leading him on, why should she accuse herself of that?!

She's been straight up with him!


I was referring to your post, not OP.
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So what do you find selfish and uncaring about feeling guilty over other people's decisions?
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So what do you find selfish and uncaring about feeling guilty over other people's decisions?


When you lead them on its selfish and uncaring.
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Re: What do you do with the rebound?

And how is OP leading this guy on? Did you read what I bolded from her post?
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