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It's not abandonment, one parent is left to care for the children
Wow! Too bad your leach of a stay at home wife brought these parasites into the world to suckle off your teat! You have worked so hard for everything you have and apparently you didn't even have a say in having kids. Dude you have some serious issues if you don't think you have any obligations towards your children.


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In my state if the children reject the noncustodial parent and meet certain criteria for emancipation such as "being of employable age", then the custodial parent may be able to convince a court that they should no longer be responsible for supporting them.
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In my state if the children reject the noncustodial parent and meet certain criteria for emancipation such as "being of employable age", then the custodial parent may be able to convince a court that they should no longer be responsible for supporting them.
Thanks Browser...this is what I was referring to. If Ynot had bothered reading my posts, she would have know that 2 of the kids are grown, are college graduates and have their own jobs. With her around, I feel like Jay Leno having to explain his jokes to a dumb audience.

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Thanks Browser...this is what I was referring to. If Ynot had bothered reading my posts, she would have know that 2 of the kids are grown, are college graduates and have their own jobs. With her around, I feel like Jay Leno having to explain his jokes to a dumb audience.
No wonder, you suffer from delusions of adequacy.

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Dude if I was you I'd still be married.


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No wonder, you suffer from delusions of adequacy.
Cheap shot, uncalled for and honestly it makes you look like a child having a tantrum because you're not getting your way.
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Cheap shot, uncalled for and honestly it makes you look like a child having a tantrum because you're not getting your way.
I am not trying to "get my way". The guy you are enabling by continuing to defend him, is basically saying that not only won't he accept responsibility for himself, he is also refusing to accept responsibility for his own children as well.
But since you seem intent on keeping score. Are you going to call JB out for his cheap shot " I feel like Jay Leno having to explain his jokes to a dumb audience"? Probably not, since he strokes your ego.
In case you missed it, JB was replying to a quote that was in response to another response he made. He basically said he shouldn't have to pay child support. If you think walking out on your kids, especially in light of your own OP is a-okay, then by all means continue to defend the indefensible.

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I am not trying to "get my way". The guy you are enabling by continuing to defend him, is basically saying that not only won't he accept responsibility for himself, he is also refusing to accept responsibility for his own children as well.
His children are young adults, from what I garner from his posts, he has no legal or financial obligation to them.

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But since you seem intent on keeping score. Are you going to call JB out for his cheap shot " I feel like Jay Leno having to explain his jokes to a dumb audience"?
JB I am calling you out for your cheap Jay Leno shot on @Ynot. Even though he's been baiting you for days, you should try to keep your cool.

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JB was replying to a quote that was in response to another response he made. He basically said he shouldn't have to pay child support. If you think walking out on your kids, especially in light of your own OP is a-okay, then by all means continue to defend the indefensible.
Again, JB's children are no longer his financial obligation, as far as I can tell from his posts, because they are young adults beyond the age of emancipation.
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His children are young adults, from what I garner from his posts, he has no legal or financial obligation to them.



JB I am calling you out for your cheap Jay Leno shot on @Ynot. Even though he's been baiting you for days, you should try to keep your cool.



Again, JB's children are no longer his financial obligation, as far as I can tell from his posts, because they are young adults beyond the age of emancipation.
Then why would he be worried about child support then. He uses them as an excuse. Whatever, dude, keep defending the indefensible. You two deserve each other.

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Then why would he be worried about child support then
I have no clue. Perhaps JB can weigh in and give us more details about the ages of his children and whether or not he'd be legally responsible for supporting them if he divorces.

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Whatever, dude, keep defending the indefensible. You two deserve each other.
You really sound butthurt dude.

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I have no clue. Perhaps JB can weigh in and give us more details about the ages of his children and whether or not he'd be legally responsible for supporting them if he divorces.




You really sound butthurt dude.
Why would I be "butthurt" (BTW is that a cheap shot?) I didn't have to pay any child support, my children were adults by the time I divorced.So, it really doesn't matter to me. What does bother me is someone posting things that don't make any sense. If you would make the effort to point out the inconsistencies, instead of just making excuses and enabling JB, perhaps he might come clean and admit the truth.

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Why would I be "butthurt"
I don't know why you're butthurt, I'm just observing that you're acting like it. Maybe it's that new chick you've been banging that's starting to act like a stalker?

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If you would make the effort to point out the inconsistencies, instead of just making excuses and enabling JB, perhaps he might come clean and admit the truth.
I doubt I can have any effect on what JB does, says, admits, or denies, however I will point out that I did say to JB "If I was you I'd still be married" in response to one of his rather hypocritical posts where he was telling me "what he would do if he were me". Given that I'm divorced and he is unwilling to go that route, I did call him on that one, perhaps that will make you feel a bit better?
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I don't know why you're butthurt, I'm just observing that you're acting like it. Maybe it's that new chick you've been banging that's starting to act like a stalker?



I doubt I can have any effect on what JB does, says, admits, or denies, however I will point out that I did say to JB "If I was you I'd still be married" in response to one of his rather hypocritical posts where he was telling me "what he would do if he were me". Given that I'm divorced and he is unwilling to go that route, I did call him on that one, perhaps that will make you feel a bit better?
Dude, it isn't about me feeling better, it is about hoping that JB will start taking control of his life and stop making excuses. I am sorry you don't understand that.

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Dude, it isn't about me feeling better, it is about hoping that JB will start taking control of his life and stop making excuses. I am sorry you don't understand that.
I understand that you seem to be on some sort of crusade to badger any non happily married person into divorcing their spouse because that's what your wife did to you.
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I understand that you seem to be on some sort of crusade to badger any non happily married person into divorcing their spouse because that's what your wife did to you.
Then again, it is apparent that you do not understand anything. The last thing I want is for anybody to get divorced. But what I do want is for people to assume responsibility for their own life. If that concept is a little difficult for you to understand. I don't know what to tell you.

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