I'm a little gobsmacked that folks think he should even be able to answer all these questions definitively after only knowing this woman for 6 weeks. That's less than two months. I go longer than that between hair color appointments! Even with my SO, at the 6 week mark, we were still getting to know one another. We were exclusive and having a great time together learning about one another, but I would have been hard pressed to honestly say whether or not I saw possible marriage in our future or even long-term deep compatibility.
Are other people really finding 6 weeks long enough to know whether a new partner is marriage material or a potential long-term love? Maybe I'm just slower than most. But honestly, the level of intensity and drama that this gal was displaying, coming from a guy at the less than two months point, would have scared the hell out of me and had me running for the hills.
6 weeks is long enough to see if one likes them enough to possibly consider it if things went well, as far as liking them--- to ME.
The girls in my life that I've really liked--- only been 4---
Yeah, I thought they might be marriage material at 6 weeks. And I was crazy about them at 6 weeks. When I got to know the real them, I later changed.
Likely ynot just for whatever reason didn't care for this woman that much.
He was honest as can be expected, I think. She did sound pushy and needy and desperate. He's not.
Nothing wrong me with that.
He did the right thing. If he wasn't that high on her--- send her down the road. It's the risk one takes when investing feelings. Sadly, the old girl invested before she should have. Sounds like he was honest with her all along and never told her he loved her.