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post #46 of 77 (permalink) Old 12-13-2016, 04:53 PM
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Well then let her go

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I too, would like to know where you come up with the idea that @Ynot is clingy, based on his posts on this thread. Because I'm just not seeing it and I want to be educated.
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I too, would like to know where you come up with the idea that @Ynot is clingy, based on his posts on this thread. Because I'm just not seeing it and I want to be educated.
Well then let her go but he won't.

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Well then let her go but he won't.

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Stop clinging on to her and let her go.

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I missed the part where he posted anything remotely to the effect of "I am clinging to her".

He wrote this in his very first post.

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I understand that she may have expectations, but that doesn't mean I have to try to live up to them. So I am ending it.
"End" to me, means the same thing as "finish".
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Stop clinging on to her and let her go.

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Ummm, didn't he already break it off with her? I thought he said as much in his initial post on this thread.

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Ummm, didn't he already break it off with her? I thought he said as much in his initial post on this thread.
Yeah I posted that, then I just went through the thread to see where @Ynot said he's clinging to her and not breaking up with her, as per @pattyreed2011 and I came up empty.
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post #53 of 77 (permalink) Old 12-13-2016, 05:46 PM
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Then why is still talking about it. Move on.

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Then why is still talking about it. Move on.
@Ynot is talking about it, because it is a good point, which is how to handle excessively clingy women early in a relationship.

Believe it or not @pattyreed2011, people talk about recent or past experiences so they can get feedback from others, learn more about themselves, improve their lives and not repeat past mistakes.
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I don't know? Why I am still talking about it?. I didn't even realize I really was. I guess I was just responding to things other people may have said on a thread that I started? I've been out and about, not using tapatalk to post from some mobile device. So when I've been talking? I'd sure like to know.
I guess we could all keep everything all balled inside and wonder why we have sunken into the swirl of circular reasoning? Honestly, if we don't test our ideas and learn from them, and multiply that learning from listening to the thoughts of others, why even bother engaging at all?


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I don't know, why I am still talking about. I didn't even realize I really was. I guess I was just responding to things other people may have said on a thread that I started? I guess we could all keep everything all balled inside and wonder why we have sunken into the swirl of circular reasoning? Honestly, if we don't test our ideas and learn from them, and multiply that learning from listening to the thoughts of others, why even bother engaging at all?
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Why are you engaged in a past that you don't want?

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No comprende. I am just responding things that others have said. It is called an exchange of ideas. People engage in THOSE all of the times. It is how we communicate with each other. Some people call it a conversation.
As for this one? I have come and gone. There have been multiple sequential posts by people other than myself. Even this post is simply in response to the one I quoted.

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No comprende. I am just responding things that others have said. It is called an exchange of ideas. People engage in THOSE all of the times. It is how we communicate with each other. Some people call it a conversation.
As for this one? I have come and gone. There have been multiple sequential posts by people other than myself. Even this post is simply in response to the one I quoted.
Can your thoughts be entwined in more interesting topics other than relationships that you don't want?

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Can your thoughts be entwined in more interesting topics other than relationships that you don't want?

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Who are you to judge what topics he should be involved in or what he should find interesting?
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Who are you to judge what topics he should be involved in or what he should find interesting?
Its just a question you don't have to be so bitter.

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