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post #1 of 11 (permalink) Old 12-18-2016, 05:44 PM Thread Starter
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It's final....I'm divorced!

My divorced is final and I must admit I am so happy to put this behind me. I will admit that this was a very trying time for me, and I felt like each day I awoke there was a heavy burden on my shoulders. Now, I feel like that heavy burden has been lifted. Now, I think about how to move on with my new life. I can't say that I am not afraid of what my future may or may not hold, but I am excited to see what's ahead for me. I have found someone who I adore and we enjoy spending time with one another. Let's just say I didn't think this was possible.

I was afraid to be open and vulnerable in fear that I may be hurt and I wouldn't be able to deal with the dissapointment, but I stepped out on faith and I took a chance on love. I am so happy I decided to make that decision.

If you have gone through the fire of a divorce and are afraid of taking a leap out on faith....I am here to tell you that it's ok. Take a leap and know that it may seem impossible, but with time everything will be ok.

Remember with time all wounds eventually heal.

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post #2 of 11 (permalink) Old 12-18-2016, 06:00 PM
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Great! Now time to change Length of Current Relationship on your profile! It's the little things, Keedy, it's the little things.

Even if I don't get likes for it, I'm still going to say it.
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Aw, I'm happy for you that you're feeling good about your life, and happy to see that you found someone else that you love. Best wishes for 2017!

Sometimes, you fall in love with the most unexpected person, at the most unexpected time. ~ Unknown
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I have found someone who I adore and we enjoy spending time with one another. Let's just say I didn't think this was possible.
Now it might help both of you to study relationship tips and skills (google it) to LEARN HOW to hold onto an keep the love and respect that you have found together and NOT repeat the same mistakes the ruined your other relationship(s).
good luck

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Great! Now time to change Length of Current Relationship on your profile! It's the little things, Keedy, it's the little things.
Jimrich....you are absolutely correct! It's official now I've changed my status! Yes, progress. Thank you
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Thanks a bunch...I am so happy!
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Welcome to the other side! It's a great place to be

~Happily un-married since December 9, 2013~
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Welcome to the other side! It's a great place to be
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Congrats on the new chapter in your life!

In youth it was a way I had, to do my best to please, And change, with every passing lad to suit his theories.
But now I know the things I know, and do the things I do; And if you do not like me so, To hell, my love, with you! --Dorothy Parker
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Nothing worthwhile in life comes easy.... wouldn't be worthwhile then. Always remember, always darkest before the dawn.

To find what you have, one must take risks.... small risk / small reward.... huge risk / huge reward.

Have had two relationships since D, one was almost two years, the other, recently ended.

Yet I took a risk, and don't regret it one damn bit. I had "the time of my life"


A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
C-Never make the person in your present pay for the sins committed by people from your past
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Nothing worthwhile in life comes easy.... wouldn't be worthwhile then. Always remember, always darkest before the dawn.

To find what you have, one must take risks.... small risk / small reward.... huge risk / huge reward.

Have had two relationships since D, one was almost two years, the other, recently ended.

Yet I took a risk, and don't regret it one damn bit. I had "the time of my life"
You are so right Chuck71. Life is to precious to take for granted. I truly feel as if I am now living. Before I only felt like I was just existing. No more...uts time to live life to the fullest with no regrets!

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